Mastering the Art of Uncomfortability: Conversation Tips

Flow of a Conversation

Figuring out what to say when navigating networking interactions can be tricky. Click on the categories below to see examples of what you can say at each stage of a conversation.

Start the Conversation

Discuss the event: 

  • What do you think of the event so far?
  • Have you attended before?
  • Which session was your favorite / what did you find most helpful?
  • Have you been to [event location] before?

Ask basic info:

  • What organization/department are you with?

Express appreciation:

  • I loved the point you made about [X].
Continue the Conversation

Ask further questions about their career:

  • How long have you been at [organization/department]?
  • What kinds of things are you working on right now?

Connect on a common point:

  • I see you have a sticker from Yosemite. I was just camping there!

Other small talk or share something you've been enjoying:

  • Are you watching or reading anything interesting?
  • I've been really into [book] recently, have you ever read it?
Ending the Conversation

Express appreciation:

  • Well, it was great to meet you. Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it!

Want to keep in touch:

  • Thanks for the advice/insight. This was such a helpful conversation. Could we keep in touch?

Got an informational interview:

  • Thank you. I look forward to speaking with you in the future.

This resource was developed by Jaysón Davidson during his internship at the Office of Career and Professional Development for the workshop he hosted, "Mastering the Art of Uncomfortability: How to Network."